Articles by Kris Swiatocho, Director The Singles Network Ministries

Articles by Kris Swiatocho, Director

"ALL" People Are Affected By Our Witness by Kris Swiatocho

2 Kings 5:1-15 Naaman Healed of Leprosy
Naaman was a paramount leader in the army of King Aram. But he had contracted leprosy. A highly contagious disease that, in the end, will kill you. During the illness, because it is contagious, you are often banished from others, even sent to live out your days with others who have the same disease. Naaman, like us all, when we are sick, was looking for a cure. He had heard of a prophet named Elisha who could cure him. So he decided to find him so that he could cure him.

What can we learn from Naaman regarding our own need for healing?
2 Kings 5:1 Now Naaman was commander of the army of the king of Aram. He was a great man in the sight of his master and highly regarded, because through him the Lord had given victory to Aram. He was a valiant soldier, but he had leprosy.
1. Naaman was highly regarded among the army and the king. However, no amount of power, popularity, or money can protect you from certain diseases.

2 Kings 5:2-3 Now bands of raiders from Aram had gone out and had taken captive a young girl from Israel, and she served Naaman's wife. 3 She said to her mistress, "If only my master would see the prophet who is in Samaria! He would cure him of his leprosy."
2. God can use anyone to speak His truth, even a child. Often, we are looking for a message written in the sky or through a great sermon, but there are many times God will use a child, or even someone lost, to tell us something. The key is, are we listening?

Also, it's essential to realize this child was captured and had become a slave. She had every right to be angry, but instead, she showed compassion to her master. What about you? Do you find yourself in difficult circumstances? Maybe you thought your life would have turned out differently? Can you see God's hand in it? Do you see how God wants you to use your life in the midst of where you find yourself for His purpose?

2 Kings 5:4 Naaman went to his master and told him what the girl from Israel had said.
3. When you are hurting, you will do anything to feel better. Sometimes we medicate our pain with food, stuff, and activity, etc. Naaman was at the point that he listened to a young slave girl's recommendation of Elisha, the prophet who could heal him. What are you willing to do to get help? Do you find yourself trying to fix your pain, or are you turning to God?

2 Kings 5:5-6 Naaman went to his master and told him what the girl from Israel had said. 5 "By all means, go," the king of Aram replied. "I will send a letter to the king of Israel." So Naaman left, taking with him ten talents of silver, six thousand shekels of gold and ten sets of clothing. 6 The letter that he took to the king of Israel read: "With this letter I am sending my servant Naaman to you so that you may cure him of his leprosy."
4. Naaman, a good follower, went to his king and told him what he had learned. The king, who favored Naaman, was also wanting him to be healed. Being a typical businessman, he sent a letter to show authority and favor for Naaman and money. The king assumed that Elisha would want this…money for his healing for Naaman. And Naaman must have thought the same as he took it with him. There are times God does ask us to tithe, to give, to serve as a way to give back to God what is already his. But there are other times; God does not ask for anything. He simply wants us to accept the gifts he gives us. The most essential gift is the one of salvation. Do you find yourself trying to buy God's favor? Do you over-serve, thinking God will be happy with you? Do you let others know how much you give to God to win their favor?

2 Kings 5:7 As soon as the king of Israel read the letter, he tore his robes and said, "Am I God? Can I kill and bring back to life? Why does this fellow send someone to me to be cured of his leprosy? See how he is trying to pick a quarrel with me!"
5. So Naaman took the letters and money to the king in Isreal, where Elisha lived, asking to be cured. However, this king got frustrated with Naaman's request as he knew he had no power to do this. He was even concerned that this request was made in a way to start a fight. This is another place where God used someone to remind us of who He is and where the power comes from. The king was on the other end of authority from the little girl but affirmed where the power came from. It is nothing our money, education, or position provides. It is only by the Holy Spirit.

2 Kings 5: 8-10 When Elisha the man of God heard that the king of Israel had torn his robes, he sent him this message: "Why have you torn your robes? Have the man come to me and he will know that there is a prophet in Israel." 9 So Naaman went with his horses and chariots and stopped at the door of Elisha's house. 10 Elisha sent a messenger to say to him, "Go, wash yourself seven times in the Jordan, and your flesh will be restored and you will be cleansed."
6. So praise the Lord, Elisha heard about Naaman and his request and what the king of Israel did. He sent word for Naaman to come to him. But when Naaman arrived, Elisha sent a messenger to tell Naaman what to do. Yet again, God used another person to disclose Naaman information. This time, an assistant of Elisha. Someone who was neither of influence or power nor a child. Who has God spoken to you through? Are you expecting someone of excellent knowledge or power?

2 Kings 5: 11-12 But Naaman went away angry and said, "I thought that he would surely come out to me and stand and call on the name of the Lord his God, wave his hand over the spot and cure me of my leprosy. 12 Are not Abana and Pharpar, the rivers of Damascus, better than all the waters of Israel? Couldn't I wash in them and be cleansed?" So he turned and went off in a rage.
7. Naaman was expecting this great prophet of God that he had heard of to come to the door himself. Like most of us, we want God to be Santa Clause or a wizard. We want him to answer our prayers, giving us full attention, and ignoring the circumstances. And while God can instantly heal, sometimes God wants us to learn something in the process. Also, Naaman was used to people answering his beck and call because of who he was. He would argue with Elisha's assistant about why it had to be the river Jordan and why seven times. I understand Naaman completely. Often God gives us directions for our lives, and we want to argue with him. We do not see what God is doing. We think we know better. We forget who we are talking to. We can get so impatient and want to give up.

2 Kings 5: 13-14 Naaman's servants went to him and said, "My father, if the prophet had told you to do some great thing, would you not have done it? How much more, then, when he tells you, 'Wash and be cleansed'!" 14 So he went down and dipped himself in the Jordan seven times, as the man of God had told him, and his flesh was restored and became clean like that of a young boy.
8. So here we go again, yet another person God chooses to speak to Naaman, one of his servants. I was surprised Naaman didn't punish him, but I believe Naaman, deep inside, was a man with a soft heart. A man who valued people no matter where they came from. A man who wanted to be cured and had to let go of his anger, need to control, and his need to want to do it his way.

I love that this servant said, if Elisha's messenger told you to do something great (because we all love to get attention and accomplish something significant), you would have done it. Yes, folks, dipping yourself in the dirty Jordan is embarrassing. Yes, there are times God asks you to do something uncomfortable. Maybe you need to apologize to someone? Perhaps you need to give in to not having your way? Maybe you need to admit you are wrong? The servant reminds Naaman that dipping himself would end up being washed and cleansed.

This reminds me of:

When you accept the Lord as your savior, you are cleansed from your sins. We get baptized as a witness to others of our belief. Naaman did the same thing, showing his belief in God, the only one who could heal him.
I wondered why seven times versus just once? Maybe it was because dipping one time was too easy. Perhaps there are seven areas of Naaman's life that needed repenting? What about you? What is God asking you to give away, lay down, be cleansed from?
God not only healed Naaman, but his flesh was new as a child. God asks us all to come to Him like a child, innocent, and to trust Him.

2 Kings 5: 13-15 Then Naaman and all his attendants went back to the man of God. He stood before him and said, "Now I know that there is no God in all the world except in Israel. So please accept a gift from your servant."
9. His healing was a witness to all, including his servants. Naaman would go back to Elisha, who at this time would face him in person to tell him of his 100% belief in God. This is an excellent lesson for us too. When God does something in your life, let others know about it. And don't' forget to thank those who have to help you along the way. Whether it's a child God uses, to a friend, a family member, your pastor, or even through a lost person, thank them for how God used them.

We would learn further that Naaman tried to give Elisha some money for curing him, and Elisha refused. This doesn't mean that our pastors, churches, ministries, etc., do not need our support. This simply means there are times we need reminding of where the cure comes from and the fact it costs NOTHING but believes in the Lord.

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I first met Kris Swiatocho with The Singles Network Ministries about 3 1/2 years ago when she came to speak at my church. I was fairly new to the church and the Singles Ministry. Since then, I have had the opportunity to hear Kris speak to our Women’s Ministry, Singles Ministry, at a retreat and on two cruises. Kris has a way of sharing God’s Word in a practical way. She is a wonderful example of the boldness we should seek in Christ. I lead groups using her studies as well as the 4th Sunday “Pray for a Mate” time. I have found the studies to be thought provoking for great discussions in my groups as well as personal growth.
—Quaye Berry, Singles Ministry Leader, Tulsa, OK