Intentional Relationships: Missionary Datingby Kris Swiatocho
There I was, in my twenties, standing at the entrance of my church for what felt like the hundredth time. I was waiting for Bob, or maybe it was John, or perhaps Dave. In the end, it didn't matter because there seemed to be a pattern. I would meet these great guys who'd say, "Sure, I go to church," and that was good enough for me to consider dating them. I would arrive at church early, eagerly anticipating their arrival, only to be met with disappointment when they wouldn't show up. Other times, they would arrive late, appearing bored and distracted. When was I going to figure it out?
Hey everyone, as a single adult myself, I understand how challenging it can be to find the right person. It often feels like you have to kiss many frogs before you find a prince. I have heard many stories and have quite a few of my own. For example: "He told me he was a believer." "He goes to church every Sunday." "At least he isn't a bad person." "He grew up in church." "I know that if I can just be the right example, he will change." Are there any other experiences you'd like to share? I understand the kind of desperation that can blind us—the kind that leads to settling for less and living in denial. I know that many of you grow tired of waiting on God; some of you haven't even started to wait at all, while others may have already given up. I have personally gone through the five levels described below. Deep down, I knew that any man who didn't love God didn't prioritize Christ and wasn't growing in his relationship with Him, based on the evidence of his actions, was not someone I should date. Yet, despite this knowledge, I pursued those relationships anyway. As each relationship progressed, a pattern emerged: these men didn't draw me closer to Christ but instead pulled me away from Him. It took time—years, in fact—before I truly understood this truth. I had to experience all the levels of this journey to gain clarity. So, where do you find yourself? Perhaps you are at one of these levels, struggling to let go and surrender the relationship to God. Level 1: You met him at a friend's party. He seems nice, and you share a few common interests. There's an obvious attraction between you. By the end of the party, he asks if you're on social media and wants to "be your friend" or follow you. You agree to this. At this point, you assume he must be a believer since he is at your Christian friend's party. You haven't asked any spiritual questions yet, but you are praying and hoping he loves Jesus. Level 2: You check out his page, and nothing seems alarming. While you don't see any references to the Lord, there also isn't anything negative or anti-Christian. So, you decide to start chatting with him. You keep the conversation focused on various topics, avoiding anything related to the Lord for now. You're concerned that if you bring it up too soon, he might think you're overly religious. You're also unsure how to introduce the concept of "Intentional Friendship™" since you just met him and don't know him well enough yet. He seems polite, loves his mother, and has a golden retriever. Doesn't that mean good things? He asked for my number, and we started texting. We exchanged messages daily for the next two weeks, sometimes late into the night. Wow, I think he might be "the one." Then he asked me out on a date. I figured that one date wouldn't hurt anyone; I need to have a life, you know? It's nice to have a man take you out, spend money on you, and tell you you're pretty. I'm sure I'll eventually get the courage to ask him about his relationship with the Lord. I believe he goes to church. I know I should probably start with an intentional friendship first, but what if all my questions scare him away? What if I discover before we even go on a date that he isn't the one? I think I will wait. Once we start dating, I can bring up the topic of friendship. Level 3: The big day has arrived, and you are incredibly excited. You've built this man up to be your knight in shining armor. Although you still don't know if he's Christian, he has been so sweet so far that it feels like you've known him your whole life. You decide to keep things light and meet at the mall to walk around and then have lunch. Things go well until lunch when you start sharing more about your life, your dreams, and how many kids you want one day. Then, you ask the important question: "Do you go to church?" He responds, "Yeah, sure." Whew! You follow up with, "Where do you go to church?" He hesitates and says, "Uhhh, I think it's called New Focus or Focus Community or something like that." Huh? He doesn't even know the name of his church? You press on: "Do you believe in Jesus?" He replies, "Sure, doesn't everyone?" Hmm, well, not everyone. He decides to change the subject. "Hey, let's get out of here and grab some ice cream." You agree; that sounds like fun. But now you're left wondering: Is he a Christian or not? You're not sure. After ice cream, you hug each other, and he says he'll talk to you later. However, something in your heart tells you that this isn't right. You realize that you should have suggested being intentional friends first. That way, you could have learned so much about him without getting your heart involved. But now you think it might be too late. What do you do? Level 4: You've been on a few dates but still don't know much about his relationship with God. You decide to ask a few spiritual questions: "What is your favorite Bible verse?" He responds with, "Well, what's yours?" Hmm. You follow up with another question: "How do you serve the Lord?" He mentions that he went on a mission trip with his church when he was 12. Okay, that was about 20 years ago. Ugh. You invite him to your church, and he agrees to go. Afterward, you go to lunch with other singles from your church and bring up the sermon. You ask him, "So, what did you think of the pastor's sermon on dating and relationships?" He seems genuinely interested, which excites you. Maybe he does know the Lord after all. Level 5: You text more and go on a few additional dates, but soon realize he is interested in God only because you are. Deep down, you know he isn't the one for you. Your heart breaks again, and you find yourself facing unrealistic expectations once more. You feel shattered. How many of these men will you continue to "missionary date"? When will you understand that being an intentional friend first is essential for discovering whether someone is truly the right person to date? You shouldn't date with the intent to convert them or encourage them to walk with God and then attempt to be their friend. You chose to ignore many red and yellow flags because you wanted it to work so badly. He frequently changes the subject when you talk about the Lord, but he does it in a polite manner. He makes excuses when you invite him to activities with your church, and he often misses church due to his work schedule. He forgets to bring his Bible when he does attend and has never downloaded a Bible app on his phone. He consistently changes the radio station to music that isn't Christ-focused, and his movie choices involve a lot of violence. At one point, he jokingly stated that he believed everyone good would go to heaven. Deep down, you know he is not the one. So, I guess I was a "missionary dater." I seemed to be on a mission to get guys "saved," "walking with God," and "growing in their faith." What's wrong with that? We are supposed to witness and lead others to Christ, right? Colossians 1:28 He is the one we proclaim, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone fully mature in Christ. I was simply hoping that one of them would lead me in the right direction. I wished for someone who loves God as much as I do or even more. I wanted a guy who would put God first, then me, and then everything else. However, there's a significant problem. God warns us that when we connect ourselves with those who do not walk with Him—those who may claim to believe but whose lives suggest otherwise—we risk being pulled away from God and the purpose He has for us. It is much easier for someone to drag us down from a higher place than it is for us to lift someone up from a lower one. For our protection, God commands us not to be unequally yoked. 2 Corinthians 6:14-17 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 15 What harmony is there between Christ and Belia? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? 16 What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God has said: "I will live with them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be my people." 17 "Therefore come out from them and be separate, says the Lord. Having friends, co-workers, family members, or others who may not believe is still important. Matthew 9:12 On hearing this, Jesus said, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. It is God's purpose for us to reach others for Christ. Through our friendships, we can help lead others to Him. This means that every person you meet and get to know should be viewed as someone who is part of His purpose, not yours. People of the opposite sex should also have the opportunity to come to Christ. While some guys are attending church, reading their Bibles, and growing in their faith, they may still be relatively young in their walk with God. It's important to come alongside them, offer help, pray for them, encourage friendships with other men, and guide them toward Christ before considering dating. Even after you've decided to pursue a relationship, take the necessary time to watch them grow and see the fruits of their faith. I believe that as we genuinely seek God's will in our lives, friendships, and relationships, we will receive what we need. We just need to trust that God knows what is best for us and start with an Intentional Friendship™ first. It will save a lot of time and tears. © 2025 Kris Swiatocho Ministries; www.TheSinglesNetwork.org Ministries; www.IntentionalRelationshipSolutions.org Intentional Relationships: That is Your Side, This is Mineby Kris Swiatocho and Pastor Dan Houk
(Excerpt from Chapter 7 of Intentional Relationships for Singles 12-week Bible Study.) Understanding healthy boundaries is a great place to start in having healthy, intentional relationships (family, friends, work, church, and dating). Boundaries are defined in different ways by different people. Accurate definitions are important for navigating relationships well. Boundaries are not tools to control others. A boundary is a way we believe we should be treated. It is not a wall or a barrier between people. You can't "boundary" someone to control their behavior; you can only communicate how you want to be treated. If they don't respect your boundaries, then it falls on you to decide what you will do about it. Here are some examples of boundary questions: Should I borrow or loan money? Should I quit my job and take care of my parents as they age? At what age should my grown kids move out, and how do I keep them from moving back home? How much help do I give someone? Should I share my faith? How much and how often should I serve at church? How physical should I get when I am dating? Who pays for the wedding? What do boundaries accomplish? •They provide a doorway that allows people to move in and out during the relationship based on understood expectations. •They clarify my responsibilities and expectations to manage my life and what yours are to manage yours. •They help develop healthy expectations in a relationship. •They encourage mutual respect. •They foster interdependent relationships. Three types of boundary relationships: 1. Dependent Relationships Some normal relationships characterized by dependence might be ones where an adult has developed a condition, such as dementia, or has some other disability. It could also involve a child who has Down syndrome or autism and would have difficulty living on their own. You would expect them to have a level of dependence because they are limited in taking care of their own needs. However, unhealthy dependence might be an adult who refuses to work and earn what they need to care for themselves, so they depend on others. It could be someone who blames others or expects them to act a certain way. It could also be anyone who has an addiction and depends on someone else to provide their addictive substance, such as drugs, alcohol, or food. It could be an adult child who refuses to move out and start their own life. These kinds of dependent relationships are destructive because the person attempts to place their responsibilities on someone else's shoulders. We call these "codependent relationships." They have no boundaries, and in these kinds of relationships, the responsibilities are confused. 2. Independent Relationships It is rare to find someone truly independent, like someone who lives off the grid alone somewhere in the wilderness. Unhealthy independence looks more like someone who isolates from others because they don't like communicating with people or fear social interactions. These feelings can stem from hurts in past relationships. Although some isolation might be normal after a painful event, at some point, reestablishing social connections and friendships is important for growth and healing. The enemy loves when we isolate. That is why God says it is not good for man to be alone in Genesis 2:18. Independence has walls that separate us from others. 3. Interdependent Relationships God designed us to be relational and interdependent. We start in life completely dependent on our parents. They provide our food and shelter and show us love and care. They model what relationships look like. If they model healthy relationships, we learn how to have them ourselves. The biggest changes take place when we move into our teen years. We begin to think for ourselves and want to make our own decisions. During our pre-teen and teen years, we want more and more independence, like how we style our hair. We're ready to get a mobile phone, find a job, earn our own money, choose what friends we want to hang out with, determine how late to sleep in on Saturdays, and of course, get a driver's license. This is a natural transition. However, being entirely independent of others leads to isolation. Teens usually mature and realize they don't like complete independence. What they need is interdependence. At the same time, other teens might want to stay dependent because they fear taking on their responsibilities. They also need interdependence. To have healthy, intentional relationships, we aim to have a healthy interdependence with others. For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. – Romans 12:4-5 (NIV) God designed us for interdependence, and marriage is the ultimate example. Interdependence requires us to understand our own emotions and responsibilities and those of our friends. This allows for a relationship that has good "give and take." It feels balanced. Interdependence provides the greatest opportunity for growth. The reality is you need others. An interdependent relationship is the healthiest and one where each person has boundaries. Order your copy of Intentional Relationships for Single's 12-week Bible study to learn more. This study covers topics on why our relationships fail, identity, gender differences, boundaries, conflict, blind spots, friendship (in all our relationships—family, work, church, neighbors, friends) but also intentional friendship, including red, yellow, and green flags, intentional dating, and engagement. Intentional Relationships: I Didn't See That Coming!by Kris Swiatocho and Pastor Dan Houk
(Excerpt from Chapter 5 of Intentional Relationships for Singles 12-week Bible Study.) Wow, where did that car come from? Have you ever almost hit someone because they were in your blind spot? Well, this happens in our relationships, too, and those blind spots can have disastrous results if we don't learn how to see them. Blind spots in our relationships are those things, those people, and those patterns we often miss because we can't see them. Maybe it's a habit you have, and you can't see its adverse effects on your life. Perhaps it's an attitude or belief about something, and this stand has caused issues in your relationships, but you don't care. Maybe it's in your choice of friends or even in dating—you keep picking the same kind of person—you don't SEE they aren't good for you. I have been told that I am a literal thinker. If you say the sky is purple, I am like, really? I don't always get jokes, and I sometimes take things way too seriously. I can quickly get tunnel vision, only seeing what is in front of me, without any awareness of my surroundings. This is good regarding your walk with God, which means staying focused on the Lord, not living in the grey but in the truth. But it's not good when you miss things, precisely in relationships, because you don't or can't see things—especially when you must SEE them. So, what is a quick way to see those blind spots—so we not only don't get into a car crash—but also a relationship crash?
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