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A Mother's Relationship: The Light FM interviews Kris Swiatocho

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To buy a house or find a spouse, most Americans say young adults have it harder than parents. By Leonardo Blair, Senior Features Reporter, Christian Post

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For young adults today, more Americans agree that it’s easier for them than their parents’ generation to stay in touch with friends and family, get into college or find a job. But when it comes to saving for the future, paying for college, buying a house or finding a spouse, most Americans say young adults have it a lot harder. Read Article

Featured in Arise ENEWS this month

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Heart for Jesus, Gone too Soon

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Today we lost an amazing young woman of the Lord, Michaela Vitkova to cancer. Many years ago, Michaela was searching for help in starting a singles ministry in Prague. She found The Singles Network Ministries website and the work I was doing in Europe. She contacted us for help. We became instant friends. I had the honor of training her to start and grow singles ministry in Prague. She would invite me to come and speak following years. Michaela, like most young singles also desired to be married. Three years ago God brought her George. Today he shared with me that he was with her as she exhaled her last breath on earth, only to inhale her next one in heaven. She was a warrior for Christ. Please join me in prayer for her family and friends and the next steps of the ministry she left behind. 

TBN: WGGS: Intentional Relationships

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WGGS TV, Ms. Annie Broughton interview, Click here to watch, Wed, Dec 8th, 2021 

CSLN, UK

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Congratulations to our nominee Kris Swiatocho. We look forward to honoring Kris at the CSLN Awards in November. Christian Singles' Leaders Network Relaunch!
For more information, click here.

WGGS/TBN: Pastor Benny Interview, Greenville, SC


Two Heroes of Singles Ministry: We will Miss Them!

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Pastor Max Holt was a great friend, supporter, and encourager to single adults. He pastored singles at HBC in Clarksville, TN, for many years as well as served as a singles ministry trainer with Lifeway for the state of TN. The first time I met Max was at the Labor Day Singles Retreat, where he gave me a business card that said “S.P.L.A.S.H”..an acronym for his singles ministry. At first, I was like, how can this man, who has been married his whole life, understand singleness. Well, Max agreed with me. He had been married his whole life; however, God has given him the heart to listen, understand, and offer compassion to singles of all ages and backgrounds. He would become a great friend and mentor. I will forever be changed by all I learned from Max and thankful he cared.  

Partial Obit: Maxie Gene Holt, age 75, of Mt. Juliet, TN, and formerly of Clarksville, TN, died April 27, 2021. Mr. Holt was a member and Sunday School teacher at First Baptist Church of Mt. Juliet. His Sunday School Class was broadcasted internationally online weekly. He retired, after 22 years, at the rank of Lieutenant Colonel from the U.S. Army. After his military career, Mr. Holt was a minister and preacher of the gospel of Jesus Christ in Texas and at Robertson Avenue Baptist Church in Copperas Cove Texas and at Hilldale Baptist Church in Clarksville, TN. Mr. Holt founded Max Holt Media Publishing in May of 2015 to publish his family's books and to provide Christian Single resources for singles and churches. He loved to travel and had visited over 40 countries and 28 states. Mr. Holt was a Silver Medalist in Ping Pong in the Senior Olympics. He was an accomplished musician and enjoyed playing the guitar, banjo, mandolin and fiddle.

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Bill was another great friend and huge supporter of the singles ministry. A single adult himself, he understood the many struggles singles could have. But he also knew the victories. I met Bill through hearing him teach at a singles retreat in NC. His heart and love for others were radiant. He would attend the Labor Day Retreat I lead as well as become a supporter of Kris Swiatocho Ministries. In my last text from him, just two days before he passed, he told me how much he appreciated all I was doing for singles and to keep going. He believed in me! Thank you, Bill, for loving me and for loving others. Thank you also for your dear fiance and friend, Pat Rostron. 

​Partial Obit: Bill passed away unexpectedly in his home on April 22, 2021.  He was 67 years old.  He was born in Portsmouth, VA to the late John J. McCarron and Alice E. Travers nee’ Marcum.  He was an associate pastor at Courtland Baptist Church.He had recently become engaged to his fiancée, Pat Rostron of Raleigh, NC.

Bill loved to laugh and tell stories, many of which may have been slightly embellished, but fun none-the-less.  He often began laughing so hard at his own stories, that those around him would be laughing at his laughing.  He loved the Lord and loved to share the Lord with others.  He loved to travel, spend time with friends, enjoyed sports, watching movies, and reading.  He also loved going to Busch Gardens as frequently as he could, especially during Christmas season for Christmastown.  Bill enjoyed many hats throughout life:   a softball commissioner for the church league in which he was inducted into the Softball Hall of Fame, a coach and player for the Virginia Beach First Church of the Nazarene softball team which won 5 National Championships, a welder, a teacher, a business manager, and numerous other areas.  His laughter would carry and make everyone else laugh around him.  He will be greatly missed.
https://www.facebook.com/pat.rostron.3/posts/10226344451944144


$1030 Raised to Send Books to Uganda

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Thank you for supporting ministry to single adults in Uganda by donating over $1000 towards the coast to ship 100 of our studies to Pastor Obong in Lira, Uganda. Pastor Thomas is a representative of Church Initiative, the developer of Divorce Care, Griefshare, and Single and Parenting here in the US.

Your generosity will help reach many for Christ not only in Lira but all over Uganda as they start study groups. If you would like to still donate towards this amazing cause, click here:
https://www.thesinglesnetwork.org/uganda-singles-ministry.html

New Book/Study: Intentional Relationship for Singles, 12-Week Bible Study

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Year-End Review: What Has God Done in 2020 by Kris Swiatocho

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I am sure like most of you, you would rather forget 2020. In fact, you aren’t sure 2021 is going to be much better. I have decided the best way to see the value of 2020 is to view it through God’s eyes. What has God done for me personally and through the ministry despite? Read More

Christian Single Leaders Network, UK saying goodbye to founder Janet Wolfe

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Today was bittersweet as many people impacted by Janet's heart for single adult ministry has come to an end...well her leadership of the ministry. Leader after leader shared their connection to Janet and how she help them in various ways---including Kris Swiatocho, The Singles Network Ministry. Janet was our first contact 8 plus years ago. She contacted Kris Swiatocho in hopes of gaining some resources to lead ministry, network and build a friendship. She would ask Kris if she would ever come to the UK to speak and train. Kris accept this request and the rest is history. From speaking all over the UK and Europe, to developing leaders, the ministry all started with that first contact with Janet and her vision of what God could do in the UK. Thanks Janet for loving singles and for reaching out to The Singles Network ministries. 

We Made the Press: Baptist Press

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Interview Little Rock Church


Supporting Single Parents

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Incredible time at First Baptist Church in Houston, TX. A church that not only employs Holly Crain as it's single parent director, but offers numerous resources to help single parents including single fathers.

Another Successful Tour in the UK/Europe, 2019

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To read more about this tour, see photo's, click here.

AMFM-XYZ Buys Radio 

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Destiny Rescue Update: Our 2018 Labor Day Singles Retreat Charity


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Thank you to all the amazing supporters of Destiny Rescue! Because of you, Destiny Rescue rescued 1,074 victims, mostly children, in 2018! These precious lives who are made in the image of God are now free - free to experience the incredible love of God. Brothels have been shut down, traffickers arrested and children are now receiving hope again…this is possible because of your generosity. THANK YOU! 
In addition, we’ve seen more kids and families than ever experience restoration and healing through our aftercare and referral programs. And with the ability to provide better options, we are equipping and empowering more children and their families than never before. 
And lastly, I have an update on a girl that we rescued. I shared her story with everyone at the Labor Day Singles Retreat this past summer. Botum, who we rescued, went through our restoration program and then eventually went through our vocational training program to learn how to sew. Her mother was given a microloan to purchase a food cart and started making almost 6 times what she used to make! Now here is the exciting update. Botum has recently become the Children’s Director at her church. God is so good. You are helping make dreams like this beautiful young woman come true for children all over the world. Eternity looks different because of you and is making a generational impact. THANK YOU! For more information on Destiny Rescue, click here!

Labor Day Singles and Leaders Retreat, the Best Yet!

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This year's retreat was above and beyond our expectations. Not only did our numbers increase but lives changed. We had more connections, more recommitments, more fun, more training, more inspiration, etc.  We had singles and leaders from churches from over 22 states plus Wales/UK. Click here to see some of our picts and/or join our facebook page to see more. 

Kris Swiatocho: Single Mom University Instructor

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State of Singleness/Church
​XYZ Radio Show

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4 Kinds of Battles Article Converted into Burmese, download

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Navigate and Labor Day Singles Retreat, A Great Success! 

What a great retreat...over the top and amazing. I have led and been apart of many retreats but this years Labor Day Singles and Leaders retreat was over the top. Click through the pictures to see some of what went on. 

Why Singles Are 'Invisible' in Many Churches; Two Megachurches That Have Thriving Singles Ministries, By Michael Gryboski, Christian Post

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Just Call Me Sarah Talk Show


Ministry of the Month: The Light FM

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Look at this...The Singles Network Ministries was chosen as the ministry highlight for March for The Light FM. What a wonderful opportunity. Please show your support by letting The Light FM know how much it means to have a singles ministry resource highlighted on their station.
https://thelightfm.org/ministry-spotlight/

Labor Day Singles Retreat, 2022


Focus on the Families: The Boundless Show with Lisa Anderson

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The Light FM: Great Radio Interview

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Kris shares on "Community Spotlight" about being intentional in our relationships. The Light can be heard on the radio at the following and live online at www.thelightfm.org
106.9 – Asheville, Shelby, Charlotte, Boone; 106.7 Knoxville
94.9 – Winston Salem; 88.9 – Clemson; 101.5 – Rock Hill

WGGS and Singles Ministry

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Great interview and time with Channel 16; WGGS in Greenville, SC. for the TV Show: Niteline; Pastor Benny Littlejohn interviewed Pastor Freddy and Kris Swiatocho.

Premier Radio, UK

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Another amazing interview with the UK's largest Christian Radio Station, Premier. Host: Wonderful Maria Rodrigues and also pictured, Single Parent Missions Director, Dawn Vanderwerf. We had an amazing time. Thanks Premier!

106 FM, The Light Spotlight

Labor Day 2019 Promo


AMFM-XYZBuys Radio

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What Singles Need From Church (Interview with Kris Swiatocho) by Jay Mayo of Right to Real Love Christian Radio



• Part 1: http://righttoreallove.com/what-singles-need-from-church-part1/
• Part 2: http://righttoreallove.com/what-singles-need-from-church-part2/
• Part 3: http://righttoreallove.com/what-singles-need-from-church-part3/
• Part 4: http://righttoreallove.com/what-singles-need-from-church-part4/

Jesus, Single Like Me/UK Radio Interview

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The Overlooked Gift of the Spirit by Kris Swiatocho (published by Charisma Mag)

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The Singles Network is expanding:
​New Singles Ministry: Tirana, Albania

Albania Singles Ministries
New Singles Ministry Leader, Miranda Ajeti in Tirana, Albania that I am working with to build singles ministry. I will be traveling there in Oct, 2018 to continue to help start, grow and build single adult ministry. Please join me in prayer for this ministry--Victory Church as well as Miranda and her team as well as The Singles Network MInistries. If you would like to help get me to Albania or support the ministry, http://www.thesinglesnetwork.org/support.html

Houston Mission Trip, 2018

What a great time in Houston, doing post Hurricane Harvey relief with North Coast Church out of Vista, CA and First Baptist of Houston. Thanks to Pastor Don, Pastor Jim, Leaders Chris plus the team on an amazing time of ministry. We helped in one of the shelters and one of the churches that was heavily damaged. We also got a chance to connect with singles at First Baptist as well as have some fun at Nasa. We also got to minsier to several people still struggling with post Hurricane as well as others helping from other churches. 

Single Matters: So You Want to Get Married? by Kris Swiatocho

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Singles Conference Doubles as Spiritual Retreat by Sara Arthurs, Staff Writer, The Courier, Findlay, OH

New Life Singles
Singles wanting “Something More” can check out a conference being hosted at Findlay’s New Life Assembly of God Church.
The Something More New Life Singles Conference will be held March 25 with keynote speaker Kris Swiatocho, director of The Singles Network Ministries. Read More

Klove Music Cruise: Ministering to Singles

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Each year Klove takes a music cruise and each year, they offer a special emphasis on ministering to single adults. Leading the way is Randy Shepherd and Jamie Johnson from Crossfire Ministries, Tal Groce and Lisa Jackson from Upstate Singles and Kris Swiatocho from The Singles Network Ministries. Every day we offer bible study and devotion, prayer, fun activities including dances, icebreakers and comedy. On the day we are at port, we offer mission opportunities and excursions. You may go on the ship alone but you will leave with many new friends. So plan to join us for 2018! 

Jesus, Single Like Me Videos now available! 

Jesus, Single Like Me from kris swiatocho on Vimeo.

Great new tool/resource for churches and ministries to start and not only grow existing singles ministries but give all churches of all sizes and locations an opportunity to reach single adults. See the website at www.PrayforaMate.com for more information. Be sure to register on the contact page to gain access to the full site. 

Focus on the Family/Boundless Podcast: What to Expect as a Single Adult

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The Florida Baptist Witness ask Kris Swiatocho, The Singles Network Ministries about Online Dating and how singles are finding their mates. 

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Pray for a Mate Now Launched! 

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Introduction: Jesus, Single Like Me from kris swiatocho on Vimeo.


Chained No More, Podcast: Being Single with Kris Swiatocho

Join us in 2019: Klove Music Cruise and Singles Ministry

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KLove Music Cruise and Singles Ministry, 2018

This was the best year yet. We had 7 singles accept Christ plus over 300 children accept Christ at the 2 mission trips to area schools in the Bahamas. We laughed, we cried, we ministered, we prayed, we loved, we hug, we had fun plus listened to amazing music and shared testimonails. What an amazing cruise. Thanks Klove and Premier for caring about single adults. To join our Facebook cruise page where you can see hundreds of photo's and video's, click here. 

Uganda Singles Ministry Gift

Thomas Obong
Each year at our retreat we designate a ministry to bring attention and support. This year, 2016, Pastor Thomas Obong from Uganda was chosen. Pastor Thomas has a wonderful ministry specific to single adults. He offers training for leadership, single parenting and divorce recovery. He is representative for Church Initiative, the developers of Divorce Care. We had the honor of not only sharing about his ministry but hearing through video about Pastor Thomas's vision for the future. We raised a consider amount through a silent auction and donations. Funds that will help to reach single adults, train leaders and pastors. Thanks to everyone who helped!

Singles Ministry Training: Google Hangouts? 

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Recently I was able to meet with the leadership team of Res Life Church Singles Group in Grandville, MI. What a great time of hearing what God is doing in their ministry as well as helping to take them to the next level. Join me in prayer for this ministry. ​http://www.meetup.com/ResLife-Singles/

Chained No More, Podcast: Loneliness with Kris Swiatocho


Radio Interview of Kris Swiatocho by UK's leading Christian Radio Station

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Radio Spot I did in the UK, 2016 for the "Something More Tour"


TBN, Tulsa, OK, Part 1

Kris Swiatocho, Brenda Senter

TBN, Tulsa, OK, Part 2

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The head of a North Carolina-based organization that aids ministries for singles has said that too many churches consider the unmarried to be "invisible."

Kris Swiatocho, director of The Singles Network Ministries, told The Christian Post that "for most churches single adults are invisible. Mainly because most pastors, secretaries, deacons/elders are married with children. When they are in the pulpit they typically preach and identify with those that are like themselves."

"I have actually spoken with churches who are not sure they have any singles there mainly because they view singleness has a particular age-range vs. someone who isn't married from 18 to the grave."

Swiatocho also told CP that there are multiple factors leading to this state of invisibility, including competition from other ministries, a lack of funds, "high turnover" for members, and a lack of demand from many congregations.

"We need more pastors trained to minister to single adults but we need more churches to want single adult pastors that will create the jobs for them when they do graduate," said Swiatocho.

The sentiment of concern over outreach to singles by churches in the United States was echoed by Nathan Keeler, pastor of a young adult congregation overseen by McLean Bible Church in Virginia.

Keeler, who oversees a youth-centered outreach called "Citywide", told CP that churches have "a major need within the church to reach young adults and singles."

"We do not have enough pastors and staffs that are engaging the culture, giving opportunities for young adults and singles to have a voice and responsibility within the church and putting resources toward this effort," said Keeler.

"Three places I have seen the church do a good job at reaching singles is college campus ministry, young church plants with young pastors and some mega-churches."

Keeler also talked about McLean Bible's Citywide, which was launched last October via an outreach strategy wherein it "intentionally meets outside of the church in popular young adult venues."

"Citywide's desire is to gather young adults across Metro DC and call them to use their life to the glory of God," added Keeler.

"We have about 600-700 young adults who have come to our quarterly Citywide events but our reach to young adults at MBC as a whole is between 2000. This is definitely the beginning of new movement and we are early in to this new paradigm of ministry."

Some involved in singles ministry have seen improvements in American churches' overall efforts to minister to the unmarried.

Georgina Agyekum of the multisite Maryland-based First Baptist Church of Glenarden, noted that her church's singles ministry was about 20 years old and included about 300 to 400 singles in its ranks.

"I believe the church is starting to do a better job reaching out to singles because of the realization that healthy singles lead to healthier marriages, families and communities," said Agyekum. "Singles in general contribute significantly to the church body as a whole in service and even financially when taught how to lead positive and fulfilling lives in Christ."

To build a strong singles ministry, Agyekum told CP that churches should look at "how to develop relatable programming that will meet singles where they are and guide them to where they desire to be as it aligns with the word of God."

"When starting a singles ministry churches should first consider the needs of the particular demographic of their unique singles population," said Agyekum. "What are the life stages of the given population? For instance, are they young adults matriculating into the working world searching for their identity? Are they middle aged divorcees or retirees? Do they fall somewhere in between?"

Agyekum advised that congregations looking to create a singles ministry "should also align with other successful ministries in order to glean from their best practices."

"Finally churches should identify strong stakeholders that will champion and promote the ministry," continued Agyekum.

While believing that not every church needed a singles ministry, Swiatocho of The Singles Network Ministries told CP that congregations need to reach out and give singles participation in church life.

"I believe with my whole heart it really comes down to Spiritual warfare….we are in a battle. What better way to destroy the family then to destroy the single?" said Swiatocho.

"If we keep the single from church, from a Bible study, from friends then they stay home or seek relationships in the wrong places with the wrong people and the horrible sinful cycle goes on."

The Daddy Gap, featuring prologue by Kris Swiatocho

The Daddy Gap Book
Upon hearing the news that his father has gone to jail, a six-year-old boy poses the question of this generation:
“Who’s going to take my Dad’s place?”
Click here for more info and how to order.


When I Became a Man featuring recommendation by TSN Ministries

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When I Became A Man, the men’s Bible study guide, written by James Daughtry and published by Abidan, is featured as the book of the month on The Singles Network Ministries. The director, Kris Swiatocho, and the staff consider When I Became A Man to be a "great resource" for men’s ministry.

Kindle additional now available


LOL: Living Out Love Labor Day Weekend Retreat Amazing Success

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Beside the amazing connections, new friendships, way fun excursions to various locations off and on campus, laughs from Bean and Bailey comedy team, worship with NorthPoint Church and Pastor Jay George plus my teaching with Pastor Freddy Johnson, we actually witness miracles of healings, restorations and new directions. There are actually more than I can list. The Holy Spirit was everywhere. Our prayer team spent hours praying over every chair, door knob and space we occupied. By Sunday afternoon, our prayer rooms were filled with folks hungry for God's voice, his direction, his healing. Thanks to sooo many people who not only helped lead, teach and plan but also served in various areas from registration such as Missy Honeycutt to greeters to table leaders to prayer warriors, vendors and communion leaders. Please see our web page for next years information at www.labordaysingles.org. Also, see our facebook page here for up to date information including testimonials that folks have shared and pictures. "One person shared with me...God has told me to burn for him...it starts with His flame in me..."

Navigate, 2014 Leaders Retreat a Success!

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We have over 40 leaders from several states attend this years Navigate Pastors/Leaders retreat in Black Mountain, NC. What an honor to hear their stories, share their struggles and success in leading singles adults. We laughed, we cried, we hugged, we encouraged. One of the pastors shared that they needed this retreat so much. Where else can you get the support, ideas, and solutions to singles ministry. We want to thank Jill Monaco from Single Matters Magazine and Dennis Franck, National Director of the Assemblies of God plus Pastor Freddy Johson, Northpoint Church, Columbia, SC and Pastor Jay George, North Monroe Baptst, Monroe, LA and Sher Isaacs, Singles Director, Vineyard Church, Columbus, OH for their help, support, teaching. Join us next year. www.NavigateRetreat.com

Lifeway: HomeLife Published

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No Regular Joe by Kris Swiatocho
Recently Lifeway contacted me to republish an article for their June Issue of HomeLife magazine, honoring "Fathers of all kinds."  I had written about my step-dad who loved me and treated me like his own child…just like Joseph treated Jesus. What was bitter sweet about the article is that I wrote it when my dad was still alive. What a treasure to read it again, thanking God for such a wonderful earthy father as well as my Spiritual one. Click here to read complete article.


Zaccheus Men's Home Named After Title Character from article written by Kris Swiatocho

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Transtional housing for men coming out of faith based in prison programs. For more info, see their newsletter or click here.

Español anyone?

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The Singles Network Ministries has a huge international audience. Regularly we hear from people all over the world. One area in particular are those who speak Spanish. 

I am so proud to announce that some of the resources on this website will now be in Spanish courtesy of a wonderful woman named Sol Tesconi.  We are also working with developing Portuguese and Russian materials. See our tool section for some articles in spanish as well as articles by Kris Swiatocho.


UK Radio and TV Specials

On a recent trip to the UK, Kris Swiatocho was interviewed by United Christian Broadcasters for a 3-part radio series in December. Also, TV Network Revelation also did an interview. Upcoming links to actual programs available soon.
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Abidan Books Featured TSN

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Lifeway's Annual Singles Retreat has transferred leadership to The Singles Network Ministries

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I am in awe at the honor of taking over this most amazing retreat that I myself attended many time through the years, served on the leadership team, as well as taught. Lifeway has done a wonderful job all these years reaching singles. Singles look forward to the retreat each year to make new friends, network their ministries, hear from God and simply have fun and rest. I am so thankful to be able to take it over. We will be scaling things back a bit to take us to what we think the retreat is really about..connecting to God and each other. So check our webpage out for this years 2014 event. Thank you God for this amazing opportunity.


Kris Swiatocho, Joining Speakers Bureau of The Life of a Single Mom Ministries

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Florida Baptist
At a time when there are more single adults in America
than ever before, many Florida Baptist churches are among the congregations that have made the strategic decision to minimize their direct ministry to single adults. Instead, these churches are choosing to integrate singles into their broader adult ministries. The Witness has spent the past several weeks taking a look at the implications of this trend by talking to unmarried adults and the churches that are trying to serve them. Read More


New Ministry, The Singles Advantage

Regina Morales of The Singles Advantage shares how her ministry is reaching singles for Christ. In the introduction, she quotes Kris Swiatocho, The Singles Network Ministries.
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Jesus, Single Like Me in the UK

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Mutley Baptist Church in Plymouth, UK started Jesus, Single Like Me Bible study by Kris Swiatocho. 

Singles in the Church by Holly Meade

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Are they an invisible population?

When the U.S. government began tracking data in 1976, over 37 percent of the population age 16 and older was unmarried. As of 2014, more than 50 percent of Americans are single adults. In fact, there are 27 states where singles comprise more than half the population, according to data assembled by CityLab and the Martin Prosperity Institute. Unmarried adults range from 18 to 56 years and older and include never married, divorced, widowed and single parents.

Yet with this vast population, how effectively is the church ministering to them? Not so well, according to some.

Kris Swiatocho, director of The Singles Network Ministries, says, “For most churches single adults are invisible. Mainly because most pastors, secretaries, deacons/elders are married with children. When they are in the pulpit they typically preach and identify with those that are like themselves.”

Swiatocho believes there are multiple factors leading to this state of invisibility, including competition from other ministries, a lack of funds, “high turnover” for members and a lack of demand from many congregations. “We need more pastors trained to minister to single adults; but, we need more churches who want single adult pastors that will create the jobs for them when they do graduate,” he said.

Nathan Keeler, pastor of a young adult congregation at McLean Bible Church in Virginia, agrees. “We do not have enough pastors and staff that are engaging the culture, giving opportunities for young adults and singles to have a voice and responsibility within the church and putting resources toward this effort,” he says.

Rev. Craig A. Young serves as director of the singles ministry at Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship in Dallas. “I think singles ministry is one of the auxiliary needs in the church that is often overshadowed by other needs,” he says. “Whereas the ministry and support to singles is a recognized need, there are many other needs in the church as well with a limited amount of resources. Therefore, it is difficult for many churches to have a well-supported ministry to singles.”

“One of the challenges of having a singles ministry is you have four leaking tires,” says Tim Grosshans, pastor of First Baptist Church in Winter Garden, Florida. Grosshans was the singles pastor at First Baptist Church in Orlando for five years. “You’re always losing people. They constantly marry each other.”

While singles ministry may be lacking in some churches, it is crucial to examine the purpose of a singles ministry as well as the motives of individual unmarried adults.

Approximately 45 percent of the adult congregation at Saddleback Church in California are unmarried. Jeremy Hsieh assists the pastor of Saddleback’s singles ministry. “Some people are professional singles. They go from event to event but never contribute or invest,” he says.

For example, Saddleback hosts quarterly six-week gatherings which invite singles to participate in Bible study as well as community events like movies, golf and games. Hsieh says that typically a group of 40 to 50 people attend the first gathering with about 15 percent tapering off each week. The last gathering usually includes about 20 people.

Saddleback integrates singles with married couples so they can witness healthy relationships and feel like an important part of the church community. Hsieh states segregating the unmarried also feeds the perspective they are there to just receive versus serving.

“I’m a 30-something single adult and I don’t think it is the church’s job is [sic] to contribute events. I think it’s to help me with my relationship with God,” says Hsieh. “Some see it so they would not be single anymore [sic]. Our purpose is to get them in a healthy community. The greatest need is to become a healthy Christian.”

Pastor Grosshans says singles are invisible by their own choice because they can proactively devote more time to serving the Lord and others.

Jesus said that not everyone can receive or accept serving God as a purpose for staying single. Remember to pray that churches across this nation provide the unmarried with opportunities to grow closer to God and to serve Him. Pray also that singles continually pursue God first with all their heart, soul and mind.

“We are alive for two reasons: to love God and to share His love with others. If you want to find someone focused on the Lord, just keep pursuing Jesus! The moment you take your eyes off Him, it becomes idol worship,” says Grosshans.

Holly Meade is a communications specialist, writer, speaker and teacher with a master’s degree in mass communication. She has extensive experience in creating and producing content for radio, television and the Internet.


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Kris Swiatocho, Speaker/Entertainer for Klove Cruise, Jan 13-17th, 2015

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Tarheel Traveler/Story: A Single Christian Women Story, Today/Then

I traveled to Yanceyville, NC to film a story for the Tar Heel Traveler, a wonderful TV show featuring stories about NC, its people, its food, its stories and its culture.

THE STORY.
When I was a child I was given some old postcards written to a women (1907-1921) named Fannie Sue Wilson. At the time, like a lot of kids, I collected postcards. Many years had passed and I came across the cards, about 50 in total. I thought, what am I going to do with these cards. Hmmm, I know, I'm going to find the owner, well at least the family. Through various searches online and a few steps, I found a family member, a cousin named David Wilson. The journey would begin. Who was this woman? What was she like? Did we have something in common? I found out that Fannie Sue lived and worked as a school teacher in various towns in NC her whole life (b1891, d1983). She stayed single her entire life. She loved to teach kids. She was independent, had a great sense of humor and simply loved life. She also loved God, making sure that she was apart of the local congregations in each town. I found out that she was a lot like me, single, Christian and loved to teach. To see the show online, click here.

Kris Swiatocho, new featured writer for Journey Christian News.

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The links below are either interviews or articles using quotes from Kris or her articles re-edited/published by other online magazines.

Radio Interview by Former Singles Pastor Greg Horn, Lexington, KY

I Kissed Kissing Goodbye [And Present Thoughts on the Matter] by Cultural War Reporters

Sprinkle of Jesus by Dana Chanel

How to Organize a Christian Singles Ministry by Lillian Downey, Demand Media

Understanding Our Times: Singles Network Ministries and Kris Swiatocho by Kevin Thompson

Single and Surviving (pdf)
by Danielle Caspar, Cary Magazine

Welcome to Smallville: Making the Most of Life in Churches and Towns Where Singles Are Scarce (pdf)
by Alison Hayhoe, Christian Single Magazine

TheSinglesNetwork.org Ministries: Joining Forces to Minister to Single Adults (pdf)
by Michelle Medlock Adams, Christian Single Magazine

Singles Standing Out Rather than Being Stood Up
by Cheryl Scanlan, The Raleigh World
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