The Singles Network Ministries/Kris Swiatocho

Welcome to The Singles Network Ministries

We are the largest resource in the world for ministry to and for single and young adults. We are designed to help you start, grow, and maintain your single adult ministry. Sign up for our monthly newsletter and/or join our prayer team. We also appreciate any comments, suggestions, support, and resources for our site. Thanks so much for visiting, and we hope to see you at one of our training or teaching events. —Kris Swiatocho, Director

Stand Up and Go To Your Corner

by Kris Swiatocho, Director, The Singles Network Ministries

I absolutely love icebreakers and warm-up exercises that help everyone get to know each other better! While not everyone might enjoy them at first, most people find that they really help break the ice during group activities. Once that happens, it’s so fun to discover what we have in common—whether it's where we're from, being a single parent, loving a certain sport, or working in similar fields. Those shared interests often lead to great conversations and even the formation of friendships. And that's really what it's all about in any ministry: building friendships for the Kingdom! Read More

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Intentional Relationships: Accept Her Past or Run From It?

by Kris Swiatocho, Director

QUESTION: I am in a relationship with a Christian girl who is committed to putting God first and seeking His will for our future together. However, she has a challenging past that includes promiscuity and abuse, which has resulted in her having a permanent STD. While I feel conflicted about continuing the relationship, I also recognize that if she’s truly repentant, there is potential for growth and healing for both of us. Her past weighs heavily on my heart, but I want to focus on the person she has become. Should I embrace our time together and trust that God will guide us, or would it be wiser to part ways and seek a different relationship? Read More

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Ministry of the Month: Pioneer Drive Baptist, Abilene, TX

Single Mom Resources

How to handle being alone as a single mother. Watch Kris as she shares on the Arise Single Mom's website. A great resource whether you are a single mom or want to start or lead a group. Check out our resources to help you get started and/or navigate the life as a single parent. Read More

Dear Son...A Message to All Father's

By Gail Cawley Showalter, Author of Living, Learning, Loving

In southeast Texas, I’m known as the Old Bird with Feathers of Wisdom for Women and a Soft Spot for Single Moms. I am sharing this letter with all fathers, just as I shared it with my sons when their daughters were born.

Dear Son, I know you cherish your son and enjoy being his dad. Now, you have a precious and adorable baby girl.
On this Father’s Day, please take your mother’s advice on raising a daughter. Read More

Romans 5:10 For if, while we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life!

Community Spotlight: Redefining Motherhood & Embracing The Single Life

Cherish Singles Ministry, Cardiff, UK: Changing Lives One at Time

The Singles Network Ministries is excited to announce a partnership with Careena and Nigel Van Zyl, the singles directors of Cherish Singles Ministry in Cardiff, Wales. Careena and Nigel met while participating in the Bible study "Intentional Relationships for Singles." Read More

How to Start a Singles Ministry

We're a phone call away to help you get started!

Study includes free online leaders guide.

It's simpler than you think. Start with Intentional Relationships for Singles 12-week study. What will this do for you?
• Gather singles and young adults from all ages and walks of life.
• Heal, restore, and renew relationships including family, friends, work and romance.
• Bring health to your singles ministry and your church.
• Build community

Once you have started your Intentional Relationship course, here are some other resources:

Watch these videos in order:

>More videos from Kris: Live@5, Leadership, Teaching
>More Videos from Others

Download these free outlines by Kris Swiatocho:

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Leaders That Last 6-Week Curriculum $59

For groups starting or wanting to grow, don't forget about "Leaders That Last" Curriculum by Kris Swiatocho. A great 6-week study/training that will take your leadership from the basics of their calling into singles ministry to building the team.

Still Helping Families in WNC!

We remain deeply committed to supporting families who have been impacted by the hurricane in Western North Carolina. Many of the generous donations we've received are now exhausted, highlighting the ongoing need in our community. We feel truly honored to partner with Jenica and Jimmy Grooms from Dark City Customs in Swannanoa, NC, as we come together to provide assistance during this challenging time. Read More

How do I talk to my pastor about starting a singles ministry? How to deal with difficult singles? How do I market our ministry? My singles never want to do anything? How do I build leaders? Get the answers to these questions and much more. Read More

LaborDaySingles.org Registration is now Open!

Well Within

by Michelle Hipp

I love how God uses the simple things of this world to teach us valuable lessons about the truth found in His word. My husband and I recently looked at homes to buy. We walked through the property, commenting on all the things we appreciated: the open-concept design, the fireplace and accent wall, and even the cute barn door that led into the ensuite bathroom.

Cosmetically, the home was beautiful, but we still needed to do our due diligence and have it inspected by a licensed professional. Our inspection revealed what we couldn’t see. Under the home, in the dark crawl space, a hidden problem began to emerge. This problem, if left unaddressed, has the potential to affect the entire home. We were powerless to remedy what remained hidden. However, once it was brought to light, we had the power to repair the problem. Read More

Resource of the Month: Single but In a Relationship with God by Gabrielle Santiago

It's a Spark to Keep Me Going

by Kimberly Edwards

We all feel disappointed at times about where we are in life. We think we should have accomplished this or that by now, or maybe we're still trying to heal from past trauma or simply getting by. Our lives can feel pointless, leading us to believe there's no reason to try. Read More